Heal Your Grief

Change Your Perspective

Transform Your Life!

Break Up and Shine is all about changing the way you think about your divorce, so that you can change the way you feel about it.

It began as a humble blog back in 2011. Since then, through writing, counselling, coaching and online support, founder Marissa Walter has been teaching how to heal and move on from your break-up by changing your perspective and finding the huge opportunity for future happiness which lies in your loss.


The new e-programme STOP Focusing On Your Ex! 30 Days Of Powerful Self-Care To Shift Your Divorce Thinking Back To YOU starts running on 6th January 2020!

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Hi, I’m Marissa Walter


I am passionate about supporting you to move through this painful stressful time, to live your best life!


I'm a qualified counsellor specialising in relationship issues with individuals and couples. I am also a divorce coach, supporting people to heal and shift their perspective on their break-up through 6 week coaching programme, The Moving On Mindset.


Since 2011, following my divorce I have been writing on the subject of transformation after break -up on my blog. I've also been published on Tiny Buddha, Thrive Global, The Counselling Directory, and published my own book, Break Up and Shine in 2017.


I also run free online support for people just like you who are looking to move on from the pain of divorce into a happier more meaningful life.

Why do I do what I do? Because my divorce became my catalyst for a better life and I deeply care about helping you to succeed too.

You can learn more at www.breakupandshine.com